less term acquaintance with the new knight, themorehe sounds like a prince. And time goes by, and he ceases to be something special and it becomes a series of others.What went wrong? The fact that we are looking for an ideal? I think so, most will answer, but no. The word "masculine ideal" does not rest on anything beyond a natural, because the ideals are different. After all, if you think, what is our "ideal" - it's just some of the qualities that we love, which we believe are suitable for us and that this incorrect? Yes, maybe when we meet the very man whom we loved, it does not really correspond to those of our fantasies, or often completely opposed to it, but at this auspicious moment it is not important. Secondly, while the men did not have their wishes in relation to its companions. And if our fantasies are deeply in our minds and we are their voices rarely, men do not stand on ceremony. Men, in conversations about their dating freely talk about what should be a woman, what it should have data, so that he met her, what to her he started a serious relationship, and I'm not talking, how many claims that it married.Conclusion: what our fantasies interfere? And then, I am inclined to think that those stupid dreams about the "ideal man" and lead our lucky to success. It is unlikely that a woman dreams of a loser. After all, this is a clever woman, who herself sculpts her prince, often without even realizing it, as the song goes "I blinded him from what it was, then, that was then and loved.". I do not remember that it applies to men. Only your forms are rounded up - and it is not. Hence, it is not a fantasy.I think the error is that we have such prejudices bequeathed to us by our ancestors as quickly jump in marriage, not to be left alone. Look what the average age of marriage for women, or not quite women 18-23 and men - and it is not important, here it is never too late, so I'm not taking the extreme with ostrohondrozom, radiculitis, multiple sclerosis and has already fallen gray. Note that this has become the norm when you're in the 21 is not yet married, and all the familiar aunt exclaim, "What, still not married? ah-ah! Hurry up and a couple of years who look at you! ", And 29 all with pity on you look and brand the title of an old maid. What a delusion! Sense to leave in 20 years, sit at home, smelled the kitchen and wrapped diapers, and suffering of unfulfilled dreams, angrily looking at successful unmarried friends who fashionably dressed, asnning out of the barbershop in a hurry for a date to a restaurant. I will tell you a secret, that if your married girlfriend tearfully sympathetic about your marriage is not held, then it is you are just jealous and wants you to be filled up its constasction team, and did not enter her depression in her freedom. And let me tell you that you aremorelikely to be happy in the future marriage than those who povyskakival in 18-20 years, of course, there are happy marriages, and at this age, but today is not about them. Because you'll pick up strength, the present appeal, experience with men, enjoy the career freedom of choice, life experience and wisdom, but simply bottle of spirits at will, and not out of necessity and become one wife, with whom they say do not go away. Well, think about what can 18-year-old wife as she is able to create and keep a home. After all, being a wife - is not just a bed, live in one apartment, preparing and washing. It's much more. This ability to understand her husband, be silent, when necessary, to give nenavyaschevo necessary advice, to share with him about his worries and joys, experience with a sharp lift in prices, devaluation of currencies, losing football team, feel free to carry his men's gatherings in the club and lots of as 18-year-old girl has no clue. And do not think that I am, therefore, called all the young virgins fools, they just traded those necessary knowledge and wisdom of an empty, stamped legal status of marriage. Many feel that the time to Gulko and free life and love this man's right - in my opinion, it is not in the Bible, not in the Constitution is not written down! And if we women have achieved equality, to take place in leadership positions in business and politics, leaving his leadership position in the kitchen, and in some areas, displace men, then why can not we take your right to choose love.So keep dreaming about the "ideal man", to meet with real candidates and do not deprive themselves of the opportunity to find the right one. And if he is long in coming, we should not assh to the first that fell just is not time yet. And if men allowed themselves to such an open freedom, as saying: "Do not assh! Marry - to die - never too late ", what are we worse?