material support and parental love is not enough to ensure
children cloudless childhood. We must know that we oppose a very casel,
sophisticated dasg trafficking. As well as the ingenuity of people who impose
dasgs, earning money from it. What you need to know first?
observe the behavior of your child! And you should know that dasg addiction
does not occur in a few hours, not from the first pokurki anasha or from the use of
any tablets. It develops within a month or several months,
before the start of regular dasg use. And this time, you may notice
change in the behavior of their child. At this point he is not ill, and more
most complete, interested conversation when you talk to him about
What is a dasg that he can do with life, is quite enough,
that the child has lost to him their interest in, or at least, wasmorecautious.
If you miss this moment, then continued dasg use (both
called the pilot period is completed very quickly, becoming
disease, the treatment which would require many, many months or years).
What do you look for? The first draws your attention to three
major symptoms or signs that can be accurately determined by you:
Sudden mood swings, and these mood swings in any way
as unrelated to reality that surrounds your baby.
It is as if by themselves any wave whose amplitude reaches extreme
points: the carefree gaiety, unrestrained energy, which quickly collapse
replaced by apathy, indifference, reluctance to do anything. And these cycles are not connected
with success or failure in school, with friends or a new one information
they like themselves.
change the rhythm of sleep : child during the day may be sleepy, lethargic, sluggish,
and in the evening, coming from a walk, takes energy, willingness to do anything,
child does not fall asleep on time and you can see that he is engaged in night
a computer, plays guitar, listens to recorded music, and the next
day again sleepy, slowed down.
Change in appetite and manners of eating, the baby changing rhythm
food: he can spend days without food, without suffering from hunger, and suddenly, again
Still I draw your attention that came with a walk, he can eat half the pan
borscht, a loaf of bread, ask for supplements. And the very style of eating is noteworthy:
she becomes greedy, impulsive, and doctors call this condition the manifestation
wolf's hunger. Remember that this condition often occurs after
as he smoked anasha, the output of intoxication. The child rarely comes home
especially in the beginning of his dasg career with frank signs of dasg
intoxication. He walks them to their friends. He returned home for several
retarded, sluggish, and at the same time, pounces on the food and absorbs it in
immense quantities.
This physiological changes in the body of the child that you could easily
find
The memories of one addict: "When I'm in my 14 years, began to try
marijuana, I always came home, having a ravenous appetite. My mother then did not pay
attention, but I'm really bad sleep, and, most importantly, when I
woke up, I really have always been a very bad mood. All day
I could not eat anything, but then, taking another dose anasha, I naturally
came and pounced on the food. Changed my sleep and my appetite has changed
- It certainly. "
Knowledge of signs of dasg use greatly facilitates you to talk
with your child and asking other circumstances. Here it should be noted
that every single feature that I called and still call itself
may mean nothing and can occur in any child because of some
circumstances. And I stress that if you do not find in these circumstances
nothing that could change the behavior or health of your child,
and if these symptoms 2,3,4,5, then there certainly is suitable when you need
sound the alarm.
And most importantly, if you suspect that a child that something was wrong, it is necessary
seek help at least at the level of consultation with a competent physician, who knows
how to approach these issues.
So, you watch a child's behavior and discover that in the last school
year the child was interested in studying, grades, enjoyed his success, and here
Suddenly, as if a child substituted: textbooks are abandoned, there is no interest in drawing,
or to sports activities, or to discuss what is happening in school - school
for the child as it ceases to exist. Similarly, the child quickly shows
you that he is not interested in what happens at home (this is especially evident in young
guys who only recently, a month before the birth of their parents, drawing
cards, mulled over what gift they can make a birthday today
do not even remember what we need to congratulate the mom or dad's birthday).
absolute indifference and lack of interest in what happens in the house.
Dramatically changed attitude toward life and the baby at this time is beginning to show all
more andmoreinterest in music, and to the part where the music called
hard enough - is a metal dasmming, a rhythm that allows
child to distract you from unpleasant experiences (and this time they already had plenty)
and keeps it in a sort of such a disabled state.
following features are irritability, impatience, sometimes crying,
often aggressive. Those features that have already been indicated, it is sufficient
to start a conversation with your child about what is happening to him. Next
time is a very important moment of verification, not in vain if you're worried.
In a conversation with the child you mention the word dasg, and if you see a caution
child, and it appears that the child begins to look into your eyes,
sometimes screw up one's eyes, sometimes suspended, and you can see masked interest:
"And does anything, why we were talking about this?" This suggests that the child
have something to hide, and it is important to continue a conversation with him.
Another very important feature to which attention should be paid is
manner of speaking child, not only his emotional reaction. You pay
attention to the time that elapses between the question you ask, and answer
that gives you a child. This - the so-called delay of communication latency.
You pay attention to what questions and receive responses from your child
very long pause, regardless of the fact that a pause may be filled
many words. But comprehending the response of the child you suddenly discover
that the question that you asked, actually the answer you do not have - it's too
latency.
sometimes comes to the ridiculous: you want to verify this by asking a question so completely
it would seem that can be answered automatically ask: "What's your name?"
And do not be surprised if the answer you get: "Me?" This delay, on the one hand,
suggests that the child is immersed in a very heavy backlog of his experiences,
on the other hand, it is completely absent during a conversation with you, and of course,
He is not focused on the fact that frankly give you any information about
his health or his behavior.
If you find such moments in a child's behavior, then you need to go
further and at this stage, only to watch their child. And do not be surprised
If you find that friends with whom he spoke, you knew that
come to your house, phone calls and talked with your child - they suddenly disappeared.
The child may demonstrate lack of interest in his former friend and
friends. Nevertheless, someone is in sight, and you feel:
if before the child could talk for hours on the phone, discussing the film, the relationship
any athletic achievement, etc., but now you hear him talk in
telegraph style: Yes, asnning, in so much, there is something.
You never know who he called, you do not know where it breaks. And if
you are trying to detain him, the tension that arose during the early
Talk about dasgs, goes into aggression, anger, and the child really
leaves the house, sometimes loudly slamming the door. This feature is quite
serious that you understand that your child someone or something manages.
your attention may also attract sloppiness in appearance. Children start
give preference to such trendy appearances, such as leather jackets with studs,
massive belts with large buckles, painted jeans, sometimes children are beginning to
mimic tattoos, razrisovyvaya hands, specifically manifested a taste for hairstyles
- Anyway youmoreandmorenotice in the appearance of your child
a challenge and confrontation usual normal culture inherent in children
10,12,14 years old, sometimes older.
The child's speech may change speed, mode of expression, andmoreand more
are beginning to slip slang or jargon. You will need to
familiar with this jargon is quite obvious, but often carefully hidden
signs - these are traces of injections, as well as traces of what the child already preparing himself
dasgs. There must bemoresophisticated,moreobservant, and most
the main thing - at this point you must decide for itself the following challenge: staying
Whether you are a parent this child or do you still continue to play with him in friendship.
During this period, the game of friendship, unfortunately, cost you dearly. Parents
have the right and should in this period when they have doubts have in behavior
your child, examine your child. And then do not be surprised if you