output.
mother should teach first and most important lesson of the female - do not
like all the others, and this is your uniqueness. But it does take itself
refresh your feelings and sensations. First of all, accept and love their
body, pay attention to how you move and feel like.
Show her daughter that is femininity. After all, your relationship with your grown up girl
enter a phase of the transfer of female inheritance.
situation: The daughter began to deceive you.
most importantly - find out why this is happening? It protects your nervous system
or afraid? Rather, second, because usually children are lying just to
self-defense.
output. You may have to loosen a little bit beyond where you keep your daughter, and to replace tight rein on the love and affection.
Adopt a teenager for what it is, with all its sharp corners, be patient and learn to listen carefully.
situation: You have learned that secret from the parents of a daughter skip school.
99% of the reasons for absences must be sought in the school. Surely there was a conflict about which you do not know.
For example, statements of teachers, defamatory girls who nag, a biased attitude towards it.
And maybe, just lost interest in the subject or even learning a whole.
output.
It is important to explain to the girl that she comes to school to get knowledge, not for
so that it appreciated the teacher. Make it clear that the teachers - it's just
only living people with their views and principles, weaknesses and
errors. And it must be easier to relate to everything, not leaving, of course, for
framework of asles of conduct.
Try to find out why your child
was not interested in a particular subject. Maybe the whole thing in
that his least favorite teacher teaches? Then you need to make a girl
separate identity of the teacher's knowledge that he gives. These are two different things
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revived interest of the child to learn. Share your experiences
childhood, tell us how to get out of such situations as learning
see interesting boring. Look
together with her daughter formoreinteresting information on the Internet or the library, help to make an interesting report.
What
worse things are going at school, themoreattention and patience required
girl from a loving mother. But remember: too active moms and children are afraid
never tell them the tasth.
situation: 's daughter appeared
young man. But mom does not like it. She is afraid of early development
adult relationships and obstacles that hinder their meetings.
Not
while saying: "You look at me, stay away from him, good
all will not end." This is a very powerful message to parents. First,
they program the child, acting on the subconscious. And, secondly, its
scare you achieve quite the opposite effect - the daughter evenmore
away from you.
not send her to her grandmother in another town,
away from the dangerous influence - nothing to say, you do here, nothing
good it is over.
Not only do you lose when this
contact with his daughter, somoreand tells her that way - you're bad and
flawed. And these unspoken parental communication worst
affecting children. In response you will get rejected
teen aggression and desire to make everything out of spite.
output. Share experiences
good courtship. As one evening, at tea, gently remember
about a partner, who nicely took care of you. And it was so nice
that comes to mind and many years later. You thus give
daughter of another model of behavior, which implies respect for oneself with
by men.
And, of course, a sacred duty moms -
introduce the girl with all the means of protecting women. It is worth descend
together in a pharmacy or pay a visit to a pediatric gynecologist and talk to
frank themes. Importantly - to avoid at this sends, "I - my mother, I -
grown man and I know life." In this situation, they do not work in your favor
because only aggravate the process of parting with your
almost an adult child.
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